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A new word in the simulation called Gamblification
I will start with the definition “gamblify” / “gamblification” (sometimes people spell or shorten it differently, like “gamblefy”). It’s basically the idea of turning things that traditionally weren’t gambling into experiences that feel and behave like gambling. The term itself isn’t brand-new—academic researchers have been discussing “gamblification” since the late 2000s—but it fits the current crypto/trading environment extremely well. Think about the difference: Gamify: Ma
lance wong
3 days ago7 min read


The Crisis of Modern Dating
08-03-2026 The Crisis of Modern Dating 1. The Internet Completely Changed Dating Modern dating is creating a lot of anger, loneliness, confusion, and resentment between men and women. The internet completely changed how people meet, compare themselves, and choose partners. Dating apps, social media, porn, influencers, and unlimited options have created a dating environment that humans were probably never designed to handle. To be clear, this is an extreme framing to make a la
lance wong
Aug 310 min read


Today is my 40th birthday! What an interesting moment in the simulation
07-25-2026 My 40th Birthday Turning forty feels different than I imagined it would. I always thought I would reach this age with certainty, like I would finally have everything figured out. Instead, today feels more like standing at a checkpoint in the middle of a long journey. I find myself looking behind me with gratitude, but also with a heavy amount of regret. I look ahead with hope, knowing there are still parts of myself that I have to confront before this journey is ov
lance wong
Jul 245 min read


My search for the meaning of life
07-22-2026 Lance’s Search for Meaning Inspired by Arthur a 24 year old poker player that has a very similar outlook in life as me and Viktor Frankl’s Man’s Search for Meaning The older I get, the more I realize that my greatest obsession isn’t money, travel, business, or even self-improvement. It’s meaning. I don’t think about it once in a while. I think about it every single day. Sometimes I wonder what keeps the world moving forward. Every morning, billions of people wake
lance wong
Jul 224 min read


All the world's a stage, and all the men and women merely actors
06-16-2026 We Are All Just Actors in the Movie Called Life The other night I found myself sitting in a KTV bar surrounded by a group of married men in their fifties. Most of them worked for hedge funds, most of them were worth millions of dollars, and most of them had wives and children waiting for them at home. What should have been a normal night of partying slowly turned into an existential crisis because I could not stop observing what was happening around me. Everywhere
lance wong
Jun 167 min read


Modern Life Is a Subscription Service You Can Never Cancel
05-29-2026 As I go through the list of the top five fogs in my current life, there is one fog that constantly haunts me more than all the others. It is my number one fog. Money obsession fog. I am constantly thinking about ways to make more money. Not because I need a bigger house, a nicer car, or some extravagant lifestyle. It is simply where my mind naturally goes. I am always looking for opportunities, businesses, investments, markets, trends, and ideas that could potentia
lance wong
May 294 min read


Writing is the highest form of self communication
05-10-2026 Writing will genuinely change your life more than motivation ever will. not in some cringe “manifest your dream life” way. i mean in a very real, practical way. most people never actually stop long enough to understand what’s going on inside their own head. they just react to life all day. scroll when they feel uncomfortable. distract themselves when things get quiet. jump from one dopamine hit to the next. but writing forces you to slow down for a second and actua
lance wong
May 103 min read


You’re Not Manifesting, You’re Being Measured, Studied, and Evaluated
04-28-2026 Billionaire Frequency: My Real Version of the Law of Attraction I Do Not Believe the Universe Is Coming to Save You I do not believe in the law of attraction, at least not in the way it is usually explained. The idea that you can sit there, think positive thoughts, visualize a better life, and somehow the universe rearranges itself in your favor has never made much sense to me. It feels passive, like you are outsourcing responsibility to something invisible instead
lance wong
Apr 2818 min read


The freedom of wanting nothing
04-25-2026 This blog was inspired by Diogenes of Sinope, an ancient Greek philosopher who rejected wealth, status, and social norms completely. He lived with almost nothing inside a barrel and believed that true freedom came from needing as little as possible. To him, the less you depend on external things like money, reputation, or approval, the harder it is for the world to control you. He proved through his life that if you remove desire, you remove the system’s power over
lance wong
Apr 256 min read


The Global Money Pie Is Massive — Why Not Take Your Slice?
04-08-2026 TOTAL GLOBAL WEALTH = $500 trillion – $600 trillion Global money / asset chart Sector What it means Approx. size (USD) Notes Real estate Homes, commercial property, farmland $393.3T Biggest asset class globally. Bonds / fixed income Government + corporate debt outstanding $145.1T Includes sovereign and corporate bond markets. Broad money / fiat money Global bank deposits + cash-like money ~$144T Best read as global broad money, not just paper cash. Public stocks /
lance wong
Apr 83 min read


Reverse engineer your life from your deathbed
04-01-2026 Are you truly living your life, or just slowly dying with distractions in between? Nobody likes to think about it this way, but if you strip everything back, most of life is just a delay toward the inevitable. From the moment you are born to the moment you die, everything in between is simply time being filled. Careers, relationships, hobbies, goals, distractions, routines, all of it exists in the space between your beginning and your end. You wake up, you stay bus
lance wong
Apr 15 min read


Hotel California Fog
03-26-2026 “You can check out any time you like, but you can never leave.” Level 23 Hotel California Fog Introduction There’s a version of life people picture before they understand how money actually works. Make enough.Disappear.Live freely.No stress. No work. No responsibility. On paper, it sounds perfect. But the people who actually reach that level almost never live like that. Not because they can’t afford to stop. Because they don’t know how to stop. And the reason
lance wong
Mar 265 min read


Tricking myself to be the happiest human in the world
03-04-2026 Yesterday I was skiing in Hakuba, Japan. At one point I got on a ski lift by myself, and for once I was forced into something that’s become rare these days silence. No phone. No social media. No checking investment prices. No sweating sports games. Just me sitting there while the snow poured down heavy around the mountains. I started talking to myself the way I often do. I said, “Lance… you’re in Japan at a ski rave festival. This is something you’ve dreamed about
lance wong
Mar 44 min read


Lance's definition of money & why everyone needs to get rich AS FUCK in the simulation
02-19-2026 Money is a personality amplifier. It doesn’t change who you are. It turns the volume up. It magnifies whatever is already inside you. If you’re disciplined, money gives you leverage. It lets you 10x your health because you suddenly have time, flexibility, and space to take care of yourself. You can hire trainers. You can afford clean food. You can sleep without an alarm. You can remove stress from your nervous system. You can invest in recovery instead of postponin
lance wong
Feb 195 min read


Speed Dating Through Humanity
02-07-2026 I think I’m on track to hold a Guinness World Record for having the most friends ever in a single lifetime. Not acquaintances. Not surface-level connections. But real friends. People I know deeply. People whose life stories I actually understand. If I live to 100, I genuinely think I’m in contention for holding the titles of the person with the most friends, the most stories heard, the most group chats, the most dates, the most friend groups, the most communities,
lance wong
Feb 74 min read


Meditations with Lance not Marcus Aurelius
01-26-2026 True Meditation: The Presence That Never Leaves True meditation isn't something you practice for 20 minutes and then forget. It’s a presence that stays with you at all times. Pause for a single moment. Notice this simple fact: you are here and now. Not as a name. Not as a story. Not as a memory. Not as a role you play in the world. Just as the quiet sense of being that is already present before any thought appears. You don’t have to create this. You don’t have to s
lance wong
Jan 265 min read


The real currency of life isn’t money. It’s time. Time is our most precious commodity!
01-21-2026 I did not write this but worth sharing cause it fits my fog framework narrative. The life script we never question: Study for 20 years. Work for 40 years. Be free for 5–10 years. Die. This is a script so familiar that most of us never notice it exists, a script that slips into our lives quietly, without a moment where we consciously agree to it, and yet somehow ends up shaping almost every major decision we make. At first glance, this doesn’t sound alarming. In fac
lance wong
Jan 2112 min read


Dan Koe's Questionnaire
01-21-2026 How to fix your entire life in 1 day These questions are pulled from the viral twitter post from Dan Koe. I organized all the question in sections so you can use it as a template to send to friends. I think after answering all 45 question you can get to know yourself alot deeper and grow your metacognition levels. SECTION 1 — CURRENT REALITY (WHAT IS) These questions expose the life you are already living, not the one you claim to want. What is the dull, persiste
lance wong
Jan 213 min read


Life is a video game and here are the rules
01-16-2026 This is a very unique idea I’ve been thinking about recently. It’s a combination of my thoughts and the patterns I’ve noticed while traveling the world and paying close attention to how people live, think, and move through the system. Most people do not realize they are inside a simulation-like video game. Not because they are unintelligent, but because the game never announces itself. There is no opening screen. No tutorial message. No pause where someone explains
lance wong
Jan 1515 min read


The Earth is a Giant Casino
01-14-2026 As I get older inside this thing we call the earth simulation, something strange has been happening to me: my connections with people have become more real, more raw, more honest than ever before. Somewhere along the way, I developed a superpower not one that gives you lasers or flight but something far rarer: the ability to make people open up. To break down their walls without force. To make strangers feel like they’ve known me for years. To understand people wit
lance wong
Jan 143 min read
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